Wednesday, January 18, 2012

New Beginnings

Emo backstory of my decision to go back to school (for nursing, if ya didn't know).

I can't claim to have a life long dream of being a nurse or anything.  I came to the decision to make nursing my new profession first in an emotional drug induced state while having Ava and then logically 8 months later.

When I was having Ava, I felt extremely affected by the nurses who took care of me (and her).  The whole time I was thinking what a great job they had and how I would love it.  Frankly, I had never stayed in the hospital as an adult so I did not know what nurses really do.  I was so surprised mostly by the amount of educating they do with patients, their tough love attitude, and the affect they can make on people's lives, and of course the schedule. 

So...I got to thinking that maybe I should do a career change.  Then I looked into what I would have to do to make that happen...and I stopped thinking about it.  As Ava got older, every weekend reminded me of how much I miss with her when I'm working all day...so, I  started thinking about it again and hashed out the logistics.  Then I waited until it felt right and made a final decision to go for it.

"It's a long way to go, a hard row to hoe." 
That John Lennon lyric always plays in my head when I think about the next few years.  If things go perfectly, it will look like this.
-1 year or science pre-reqs...must get 4.0 (taking A&P 1 and 2, chemistry this semester, working
  full time, nbd)
-June 2012-apply for 2 nursing schools' accelerated programs
-Jan 2013-hopefully start nursing school
-12-17 months later-finish nursing school

Getting into nursing school is extremely competitive.  That makes me nervous, lotta pressure.
What it looks like, feels like to be a non-trad student.
1. Geek Chic glasses make you look like a serious student and have an obvious impact on your
actual intelligence.
2. Northface coat keeps you warm while you walk around campus and run to catch your lightrail
train. It also makes you look Coloradoey.
3. New iPhone 4S shows you have a real job and can afford a new iPhone 4S...except it actually
means nothing since all the kids have them these days. It's a serious upgrade from the orange
Kyrocera phone I had in college. Mostly it's great entertainment during the shortest moment of
downtime (a perfect opportunity to obsessively check facebook or gmail-duh!)
4. Book bag with current place of employment embroidered on it shows company loyalty in the office during the day and makes you look like an uber non-trad in the evening as you roll into class and pull out a brand new five-star notebook and pre-purchased textbook and lab manual. Don't worry, back up pens, kleenex, and snacks fit perfectly in the side pocket....pearl necklace and gyms socks sneak around in the bottom from this bags every other day gym bag duty. 
*Upgrade happening in March when "hopefully" I get a surpise red, monogrammed Cambridge
Satchel for my bday.
5. Nalgene keeps you hydrated in a 3.5 hour class.
6. Baby toys in your first day of school pic shows you are definitely a non-trad.

I surprised even myself as I embraced my non-trad position by asking the professor how to be successful in the class, if the tests come from the book or lecture, and what percentage of the class usually get an A, and where I could find a soft copy of the syllabus-you know, to print out and keep track of how many points I need for an A and how points are earned.

Yes, I'm going to be great at college this time too...

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

Christmas is so great.  We were able to spend a lot of time with our increasingly chaotic families this year.  It is wonderful chaos of babies crying, wrapping paper everywhere, noisy baby toys, attempted naps, and happy grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.

I got to host Christmas with the Gomperts!  I went with a frosty natural theme.
Place setting close up.
Following dinner, Lindsey wrangled the kids for the Christmas story reenactment.  This is a fun tradition that was part of Marc's childhood as well as mine.
Lots of fun new toys to play with!
We went to Freeburg for Christmas.  Life doesn't get much better than this.  Marc and I could not get enough of these little precious(es?).  I like it best when they're bundled together.
Babies holding babies.  It's so hard to get 3 sub 1 year olds to pose nicely for a picture.  Doesn't Ava look proud of herself for sitting in that just-her-size chair and holding Margaret (that's Peggy for short, thanks to uncle Jonas).
On Christmas day, lots of family and Shook fam friends came over.  There were presents, lots of food, and Ava's 1st 1st birthday party.  Included in Mom's awesomely pretty and whimsical Christmas decor this year was the "Angels Having a Party" themed dining room.  Christmasy, yet appropriately pink to host a baby girl birthday party.  Owning 4 sets of real feather, life-size angel wings would make me really happy.
Smash cake!  She's not that into smearing cake.
This was Joney and Erin's last unmarried Christmas.  We're all looking forward to the nuptials on June 15, and managed to fit some wedding crafting/wine drinking into the Christmas mix.
A highlight of all highlights was when Santa came!  Peggy and Nordoo had a few failed attempts to see Santa, so Santa came to them.  Look at Nolie Santa loving his grand babies.  Ava was terrified of Nolie Santa, but keeping a yarn pom, and later a cookie in her mouth seemed to help!
Sweet moment during birthday present opening (and a little bit of a cookie tummy, pardon me).
Opening birthday presents and getting one last wear out of her fancy Christmas dress.
 Twin love, Lucas and Jamie love, Grandma love.
 Finally, an impromptu photo shoot of most of the Schafale girls (we're missing a few, and Ava was napping).

Whew.  Time goes so fast.  Next year all the babies will be running around, there will be more chaos.  I just can't wait.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Happy Birthday, Ava!


Turning one is a big deal.  The idea of a Sugar Plum Fairy party may or may not have been hatched before Ava was even born.  Christmas baby+girl baby=you do the math for a party theme. 

What better to celebrate a sweet girl's first year of life than tulle, pink, purple, silver ribbon, snowflakes, mice kings, and candy topiaries, with a few nods to the Nutcracker to hold it all together.

Thank goodness Mom was here all week to execute most of the crafting needed for the party vision/watch Ava/drink wine every evening/make and eat cookies with me.

Here's the birthday girl in her Nana-made no-sew tutu.  Luckily Baby Gap has a ballerina collection out right now so I was able to find ballet shoe tights, and her onesie with ballerinas on it.  Hard to see.  
 White chocolate cherries with a Cookies and Cream Kiss face, add ears and a crown and you've got a mouse king.
 Wooden clothes pins painted as ballerinas, pipe cleaner arms, pearl tiara, tulle skirt.
 Desserts on the snow covered counter, yarn poms, snowflakes, ballerinas hanging from above, cookie stand with mice, candy topiaries, cake (made by Mulberries).
After sending the cake shop a picture of a similar cake, I had to go back and forth with them all day while they decided if they could make it.  The low probably came when they told me the ruffles in the picture were made of fondant and I had to tell them that Martha Stewart made that cake and managed to do it with buttercream.  Oops.  All of that aside, I'm so happy with the finished product (they figured out the buttercream).
 Some of the food set up
 Did I forget to mention the cascade from ceiling to table?
 Candy topiaries
 Party people
 Christmas tree turned Sugar Plum Fairy tree
There were lots of presents and cousins helping open presents...
 A pretty birthday crown made by moi-a newly formed Marc Gompert family birthday tradition, a lazy eye from Marc in the only picture of the 3 of us (hehe, Marc)...
Most importantly, there were Nanas loving on this sweet girl...
Grandparents holding baby girl cousins...
 Lots of good friends...
More good friends...
 Tutu bottoms...
 Big girl steps...
 And at the end of the day, a very happy little one year old Sugar Plum Fairy, properly spoiled on her big day!